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LASIK in Korea? You must be kidding.

Written by: Amanda // Category: South Korea

I’ve always had the worst eye sight out of anyone I know. A conversation usually would begin with the other person saying: “Man, I’m blind without my glasses.”

Me: “Oh really? Me too!”

Other person: “Yeah I pretty much can’t see a thing”

Me: “What’s your prescription?”

Other Person: “Like a -3.25 and -4.00. Isn’t it horrible.”

Me: “…”

Me: “Seriously?! Mines a -8.75 and -7.50.”

Other Person: “Oh wow, you literally are blind.”

Me: “Yeah, so you shut your face about your -3 business.” 

No I don’t really say that on the end of the conversation, I just think it. It’s bad enough when you go to the eye doctor, tell him you have horrible eyes and he exclaims: “Wow, your eyes ARE bad!” Gee thanks. Way to make me feel awesome.

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I’ve been wearing glasses since I was 6. I distinctly remember the day I got my first pair, I was so excited  about wearing glasses. If I had known what was to come in the future years with my horrid prescription, the cost of glasses (with that prescription), contacts, eye allergies, etc. I may have been crying instead of smiling on the way home.

I guess my eyes had always been terrible from the start. The moment I received my glasses it was like unveiling a whole new world to me. I’m not sure how I knew tree branches and leaves existed before glasses, because I could see them! Clear as a bell! I’ll never forget exclaiming over and over, “Look at the trees! Look at the leaves! Look a the mountains!” I could see.

Just for your viewing and amusement pleasure I had to throw in a picture of me with my first pair of glasses. I’m not sure why my mom even let me pick these suckers out. Each lens was the size of a freaking dinner plate, and the frames were pink with little purple flowers. Fashion forward much? Then there’s the matching pajama thing with my American Doll Addy (she was always my favorite). Oh and the doll umbrella, because apparently I thought it was raining inside the house. The hair cut? Not going there.

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By the time I was 12 I grew to hate my glasses with a passion (I had since moved on from my flowery frames of fashion death and upgraded to a sleeker silver design). I hated the way they made my eyes look small, and the way they felt on my face. Having them constantly steam up or fog over in certain types of weather was annoying too. My mom let me save up and buy my own contacts when I was 13 years old. Thank goodness for Walmart having ‘Always Great Prices.’

Once I got contacts I never went back to glasses. I upgraded my frames one more time in 2007, but literally NEVER wore my glasses out in public, and rarely took my contacts out even at night. Yes, I was that girl.

When we moved to South Korea I discovered the wonders of  one a day contacts, and it kept my eye allergies at bay (apparently I’m allergic to seaweed). There was still an undeniable desperation with being so blind though. I kept thinking about natural disasters or emergencies.What if a tsunami hit and I didn’t have my contacts in (or I did and they were washed out)? I’d be TOAST for sure. OR what if WW3 happened and North Korea finally decided to attack? Without my husband I wouldn’t make it. What if I was alone one night and heard something in my house or worse,  my room, and couldn’t see it?

These (and many more) what-ifs apparently rung a bell in my husband’s thoughts as well. He started mentioning LASIK. I had looked into it once in the US, but the $4,000 dollar price tag wasn’t something I could pocket or justify in our current situation. Getting surgery in South Korea has its advantages. Not only are the doctors world renowned, but everything is a MILLION times cheaper than back home.

I started looking into LASIK prices to find out that most clinics offer it for around $600-700 per eye! That’s less than a third of the cost of the service back home. Derik and I kept talking about it, until two weeks ago when he said: “You just need to do it. Go online and book LASIK right now.” We both knew it would be a great thing for our travels, especially since we have a big trip coming up in the spring. No more messing with contacts and eye solution!

After extensive research who am I kidding I only spent 30 minutes  I stumbled repeatedly on Sojunghannun Ophthalmology Clinic.  I of course had been googling ‘LASIK in Busan’ and blog after blog kept popping up how great their service was. When I found out that the former president of Korea took his bad eyes there, I knew mine had to go too.

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have a slight freak out/hyperventilating moment the second I booked my consultation AND surgery on the same day. What was I thinking? This is my SIGHT we’re talking about here, yet I’m signing it away online over a 5 minute procedure.

The day of the surgery I was a nervous wreck. My husband did his best to console me and tell me it wasn’t a big deal, but the only thing going through my head was ‘Amanda what if it doesn’t work and your lousy sight is ruined forever?’ I was also worried about the fact that I may not qualify due to the allergies I’ve had all year. Also you never know how thick your corneas are going to be until the doctor tells you. If your corneas are too thin? No LASIK for you.

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Last day/picture with glasses!

I couldn’t decide if I was more nervous about qualifying for the surgery or the actual surgery itself.

We walked into the very contemporary looking clinic and were greeted by a friendly staff. They weren’t fluent English speakers, but they were helpful and got all my info sorted out in no time. Classical music was playing softly in the background, and deluxe coffee machines were at every corner just waiting to make you a mocha or cappuccino.

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 I went through a series of eye machines to determine my pupil size, eye dioptre, cornea thickness and so on. Apparently I passed all of those with flying colors because I was quickly brought into the doctors office and being told what exactly the laser does when they cut my cornea open. I don’t even really remember what he said because I was too busy freaking out about the fact that I’m having LASIK surgery in less than 15 minutes.

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Derik and I were both brought into a private room with a gorgeous city view and amazing massage chairs. While we were relaxing for a few minutes I was instructed to throw on my little surgery outfit and was given tea and cake. That pit of butterflies in my stomach was growing bigger and bigger.

surgerytime

teacake

 Then it was time. The lady grabbed my hand and led me (like I was blind psh) toward the operating room. I guess right now would be a great time to mention this is my first experience with surgery EVER in my entire life. I was led into an air shower where I stood in a small room/box getting air blown on me for about 10 seconds. Then came the operating table.

surgery

I guess I always figured with something like LASIK they’d at least secure your head or your arms or something so you don’t accidentally move or freak out. Nope I was wrong. I laid down on the table with the instructions of the nurse (in Korean) and she fixed my hair net to keep the hair out of my face. She then placed the laser machine just inches from my face and then we waited for the doctor.

The doctor came in and the surgery began immediately. I felt like I was either jumping off a cliff or riding on a huge roller coaster. The doctor spent the entire time coaching me through the surgery, and with a monotone voice he kept saying, “Just relax. Look at the light. Just relax.” It was actually pretty soothing despite the fact that I was having my eyes cut open and operated on by a laser.

The first thing they did was put this clear tape-like plastic mask around my nose, eyes, and forehead. I’m assuming its to keep anything on my face out of my eyes. The doctor did one eye at a time and started with the right. He put about four drops of numbing solution in my eye, and I tell you what, I didn’t feel an ounce of pain. There was a lot of pressure, but that was it! After he put the drops in he opened up my eye with a speculum to keep my eyelids open. He drew a couple lines on my iris (which I could see him doing but never felt) and then came the cornea cutting process. I’m not sure what he used to cut it, but it felt really weird and I lost my eyesight for about 10 seconds.Whatever he used kind of vibrated and whirred over my eye. After he cut it he would ask me if I could see the red light again. Yes, yes I could.

Now my left eye was a completely different story. Same process, same cutting, but after he was finished he asked me if I could see the red light, and wouldn’t you know it, I couldn’t! I had about a 2 second mini freak out thinking he cut the cornea too thick; I was blind and I’d never see again through that eye. Two seconds later (which seemed like an eternity) I could see. I think he just asked me a little bit in advance, which of course scared me to death. 

The laser was next and didn’t hurt an ounce. I watched it dance for 17 seconds on my right eye and 19 seconds on my left. The smell was horrendous. I had read about the smell online, but it’s very similar to what burning hair smells like. Once the laser was done doing its’ thing the doctor put the flap back over my eye and squeegeed out the air bubbles. He then put temporary contacts (with no prescription) to keep my recently cut corneas in place. The contact lenses were just a little bit bigger than a normal contact, but not anything crazy different.

When he was finished I could see! It was really cloudy and hazy at first, but I was able to walk myself out of the room and meet up with Derik. After getting some instruction on how to use the series of eyedrops they gave me, I was able to leave. No other instruction needed! I didn’t even need to wear those silly glasses at night like a lot of people do.

eyecansee!

Just yesterday I went back to Busan to have my contacts taken out and my first check up and wouldn’t you know it, I can see better than 20/20.  He didn’t tell me the exact number, but that’s good enough for me. I have a small hemorrhage  in my right eye which I was told will go away in a couple weeks. Nothing like freaking my kindergarten students out.

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Looking back at the surgery it just feels like some crazy dream. Yes. I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t a traumatic experience, but it was definitely worth the trauma! Now for all the brave souls out there I’ve included a video of the surgery on one of my eyes. Credits to my husband for taking this. If you’re anything like me and you have an aversion to eyeballs don’t watch it.


Have you gotten LASIK? Are you thinking about it? I love hearing others opinions and thoughts!

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Welcome to Living in Another Language! Thanks for dropping by. We’re Derik and Amanda, a couple with a permanent case of wanderlust. Follow along with us as we travel the world. Read more about us HERE.

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      • Weird Wednesday (05/22)
      • The thing about 'selfies'
      • Latey [6]
      • Would you like to know? [2]
      • Green smoothie: grapefruit
      • The time we went to an adult playground
      • Lately [5]
      • Things i wish i had known...
      • Breakfast in seosan
      • Lately [4]
      • Hakdong (pebble) beach
    • ►April
      • Why would i say that?
      • Recipes: fish tacos
      • Lately [3]
      • Would you like to know?
      • Weird Wednesday (4/23)
      • Friend connect bloghop
      • .org vs .com and how I almost lost it
      • Cocoppa: an ocd iphone lover's dream
      • Lately [2]
      • The candid series: busan
      • For every woman
      • DIY Lip Balm
      • Lately
      • Of 'Weird Wednesdays' and liebster awards
      • Recipes: boneless bbq chicken
      • Shopping habits
      • Out with the old...
      • I'm attracted to attractions
      • Preparing for war
      • Recipes: cheddar garlic biscuits
      • The purple mountain (Mt. Daegeumsan)
    • ►March
      • Weird Wednesday (03/27)
      • Osaka aquarium kaiyukan (part two)
      • The dentist.
      • I don't use shampoo
      • Weekly photo challenge: my korean happy meal
      • Fireworks + friends = epic
      • Thirty-three reasons why I love my job.
      • Japan: land of the rising sun
      • So...you want to be an ESL teacher?
      • Weird Wednesday (03/06)
    • ►February
      • Bored on a thursday night?
      • Osaka aquarium kaiyukan (part one)
      • The time i went to north korea (DMZ)
      • Weekly photo challenge: forward
      • A trip to the bamboo forest
      • Year one
      • Be mine
      • French press lattes
      • Weird Wednesday (02/13)
      • The bet we made with the boys
      • [Vietnam] last day in paradise
      • [Vietnam] $10 dollar scooters and free spray tans
      • Weekly Photo Challenge: Unique (Dr. Seuss)
    • ►January
      • Weird Wednesday (01/30)
      • I practice my hobbies on saturdays...
      • Weird Wednesday (01/23)
      • [Vietnam] the time i ate sea urchin
      • The candid series: farmer's market
      • [Vietnam] landing in paradise
      • Weird Wednesday (01/16)
      • 5D
      • [Vietnam] a morning in the bay
      • Weird Wednesday (01/09)
      • [Vietnam] in silent waters
      • [Vietnam] of busy streets and great food
      • Weird Wednesday (01/03)
  • ►2012
    • ►December
      • Dear santa...love, an expat.
      • Delicate
      • Bring forth the holiday cheer pt.2
      • Recipes: grandma knows best
      • I've become domesticated.
    • ►November
      • Weekend reunions
      • Bring forth the holiday cheer
      • They deserve it the most...
      • Three quarters.
      • 11/11
      • Halloween: 'korean style'
    • ►October
      • I wish I were...
      • Foreign
      • Sorry if i'm rude, i'm american.
      • Expat resources
      • As the days get colder
      • Big
      • Colors of change
      • Chuseok
      • 24
      • Top ten
      • Jasmine: not the tea or the disney princess.
      • Where do i get it? 10/4
    • ►September
      • six months plus.
      • [Bali] late night cruisin'
      • [Bali] water adventure day
    • ►August
      • Grand mirage...a piece of paradise. [bali]
      • The first of many [bali].
    • ►July
      • The dirtiest people i've ever seen
    • ►June
      • Its not always about the pictures.
      • Yeosu world expo. Basically the coolest event i've ever been to.
    • ►May
      • Seoul. It's beautiful chaos.
    • ►April
      • When did time escape me?
    • ►March
      • That BBQ Chicken...
      • Sick Days...
      • Busan
    • ►February
      • Of food and other things.
      • The Journey Over
      • The Grand Adventure
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Our adventures may be few and far between nowadays Our adventures may be few and far between nowadays, but the ones we get to take are oh so sweet. 

My daughters are now 2.5 years and 6 months old. Life never slows down, but only gets faster with each day we’re blessed to live. Social media may not be a part of my life how it used to be, and instead I’m working on living life intentionally each day as we raise our girls during these crazy times. 💕
2020 has been a year has it not? As much as I love 2020 has been a year has it not? As much as I love social media, I found myself taking a break as the things we were all going through made social media so insignificant to me. 

In January/February I had a miscarriage. It was a horrible way to start the year, and little did I know it was just the beginning of it all. 

Even with the loss, hardship of moving back to the US in the middle of a global pandemic, and navigating our new lives here, we were given many blessings. The greatest of those was finding out I was pregnant again in March.

It’s a scary time to be pregnant right now, especially after a miscarriage, because doctors visits are very minimal. Also, Derik was never able to come to a single visit. I was terrified something would happen and I would be told bad news and have to face that alone. But God was gracious to us. 

We kept our special little secret to ourselves, and it wasn’t until our third trimester before we told immediate family and close friends. My pregnancy was very private for me, and a special time to bond closely with the babe growing inside me.

Our sweet little girl arrived November 30, and yes I had to deliver with a mask on, but she is perfect and I truly feel our family is complete. 💕🌈
 
“When a rainbow appears, it doesn’t mean the storm never happened or that we are not still dealing with its aftermath. It means something beautiful and full of light has appeared in the midst of the darkness and clouds. Storm clouds may still hover but the rainbow provides a counterbalance of color, energy, and hope.”
I am in love. As I’m sure every other plant/mons I am in love. As I’m sure every other plant/monstera collector is when you get to behold such a beauty in real life. If there were ever #plantgoals, this is it. 

Since moving from Germany, it has been a long and slow process getting our life back to normal. All of our belongings have yet to arrive so we’ve literally been camping in our house on an air bed and camping chairs for two months. 😂 All that to say, having to start my plant collection over again here stateside has been so much fun! I will miss the plant prices if Germany, but the selection here blows my mind. Anyone else obsessed? We’ve lived here for almost 8 weeks now and I already have 11 plants 😂😬😬😬. I don’t have a bed or a couch, but by golly I have greenery. 😂🤦🏼‍♀️🌱
Oh my heart. I’ve been trying to figure out the Oh my heart.

I’ve been trying to figure out the words to say about our time in Germany, but my fingers can’t seem to type out how to express my love, gratefulness, thankfulness, sadness, and heartbreak I feel about leaving. Every country we’ve lived in has taught us something and has given us so many beautiful memories, as well as opened our eyes a little more to different cultures and ways of living.

But Germany was special. The first time we stepped foot into Germany was in 2015, and we loved it so much we stayed the extent of our travel visa (3 months). I was able to visit again in 2016, and then we officially packed everything and moved in 2017. Germany has always had my heart: the people, the festivals, the food, wine and beer, the immaculate home landscaping, and even all the rules that every resident is just expected to follow to a tee (like recycling every tiny scrap of trash). Our family grew from two to three while in Germany. Bringing our daughter into the world, and raising her for a year and a half in a different culture, will be one of the most beautiful memories of my life.

Our move was impacted by the COVID pandemic, and it took three long months of delays, red tape, and countless phone calls to get everything together so we could actually get on a plane and have our stuff packed and shipped to our new home. 
I am breathing a sigh of relief to know all the stress of everything is over and our new adventure can begin. I am mourning the loss of leaving Germany. I am in a weird transition right now trying to grasp it all, but here we are jumping into new things head first! We are back in the US for a while, in the beautiful state of Tennessee, and look forward to many new memories, travels, friends, and being able to spend time with family! 
Photos from my sweet and talented friend @juliejayphotos
I feel like I failed hard this year at Christmas m I feel like I failed hard this year at Christmas markets. We went to a total of ONE market, which is exactly 19 less than I told myself I would go to this year to make up for not going to any the year before 🤦🏼‍♀️(I was 40 weeks pregnant and not feeling crowds). I will say, it was a great one and the weather was so nice, we stayed out until the market shut down.

If there’s one thing I will miss most about Germany when it is our time to move, will be the sheer enthusiasm this country has for Christmas, and I’m not talking about consumerism. Food, laughter, friends, family, music, dancing: celebration. Also, Germany shuts down for not only one day, but THREE. Stores are closed, mail is not delivered, people aren’t out and about. Everyone is home enjoying time with family, and I love it. However, I may have gone into full blown panic mode Christmas Eve when I realized I had a total of 8 diapers to get us through until the 27th. 👀
We spent Thanksgiving back in North America: Whist We spent Thanksgiving back in North America: Whistler, Canada! A 10 hour flight from Germany , and I can’t say this one was better than the one we took over the summer on our trip to Alaska, but we survived! Entertaining a 11 month old for that long is much harder than a 6 month old, especially when they aren’t into sleeping on the plane AT ALL. 🤪

Whistler was beautiful despite the lack of snow, and we enjoyed our time with family, the delicious food, and as much sightseeing as one could do with a jet-lagged baby. 
This was actually my first trip to Canada ever, (unless you want to count the move my parents took up to Alaska from Arkansas when I was two. 😂🤷‍♀️ ) and I loved it! We would really like to take a big Canadian road trip someday and explore more of the country! 😍😍🇨🇦
Being a mama may mean I don’t always have time t Being a mama may mean I don’t always have time to put myself together, but I would rather spend the extra moments making special memories with our daughter that she can cherish forever. I doubt that she will look at this picture and see a tired, messy haired mama that’s barely had time to wash her face nevermind carefully apply makeup, but am hoping she will see a mama that never tires of carrying and cuddling her, or sharing new experiences with her. 💕
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