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The thing about ‘selfies’

Written by: Amanda // Category: Uncategorized

Selfies. We all do it. We all equally love them and hate them. And usually the question is why? Just in case you are unfamiliar with the term ‘selfie,’ the Urban Dictionary describes this term best:

“A picture taken of yourself that is planned to be uploaded to Facebook, Myspace or any other sort of social networking website. You can usually see the person’s arm holding out the camera in which case you can clearly tell that this person does not have any friends to take pictures of them so they resort to Myspace to find internet friends and post pictures of themselves, taken by themselves. A selfie is usually accompanied by a kissy face or the individual looking in a direction that is not towards the camera.”

AND

“A strange phenomenon in which the photographer is also the subject of the photograph, in a subversive twist on the traditional understanding of the photograph. Usually conducted because the subject cannot locate a suitable photographer to take the photo, like a friend.”

A great majority of bloggers do their best to keep up with current pictures, About Me pages, and buttons. This is where the dreaded self pictures come in. Some bloggers are lucky enough to have great photographer friends and loved ones who would be more than happy to snap a few pics to keep profiles current. Some of us are not. I do love my husband so, but he’s not really into photography. At all. He fully supports me in my endeavors, and loves to pick a few of his favorite photographs, but when I ask him to take a picture of me by myself, with friends, or of the two of us, his eyes glaze over. He also HATES having his picture taken. It takes quite some time to get a normal picture of him. He’s resorted to using funny faces as his way of rebellion against me taking his photograph. Sigh. This brings me to my point. I have absolutely no one that will try to take semi-serious photos of me to throw up on my blog. I also have no one to take pictures of to cure my photography bug.

So…I have resorted to selfies. The first time I did a planned shoot with my 5D just to experiment with the lighting and my new 50mm, I was blown by how some of the pictures actually worked (pictures here)! I learned a long time ago that an arm-extended selfie just doesn’t work as any sort of social media profile pic, or (heavens) blog material. I am however guilty with taking one or two on a weekly basis just for my own personal delight (and my husbands as I reach across his face to try to get a good date ‘couple’ picture with him). There are nothing wrong with selfies. I am writing you today to let you know that there is a way to take self portraits and make them look like professional pictures, because really, that’s what we want anyway.

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Unfortunately the process is a little bit more difficult than just point and shoot. You’ll need a tripod,  an external remote (if you don’t have money in your budget to buy one for 10-20 dollars or so, the self-timer feature on your camera works just fine), and a manual focus setting on your camera. It’s also important to find a place with natural lighting. I know some photographers do wonders with flash-photography, but I tend to steer away from that. Could be because I have yet to get a flash kit for my 5D (I’ve gone six months without one), I don’t know. ;)

My first ever self shoots were with my husband for Christmas. We headed out with my old Canon Rebel Xsi, my new tripod, and smiles on our faces to do our session in the cold weather. We also did some indoor shots. One of the biggest-must do’s is to make sure lighting is good. If you’re taking photos outside, I wouldn’t recommend doing it mid-day on a sunny afternoon. Take your pictures in the morning before the sun is too bright, or late afternoon (ehem…golden hour!). Cloudy days strangely have given me some of my FAVORITE photos.

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Having a partner-in-crime is also nice, because you now have a specific focal point for your camera’s lens instead of just judging the distance with thin air. One of the things I loved about my Rebel was that I could set a self timer to take a progression of 10 photos in a row. I could also change the timing between the photos, so that we would have time to switch poses and expressions. Unfortunately the 5D doesn’t have that, so I was forced to buy the external remote.

Self vs. the camera selfies are quite different than when you have a partner. I have thoroughly enjoyed getting to know my camera on the opposite side of the lens, and I’m excited to share with you today how you can get to know yours in the same way. Please be prepared to have a ton of patience during your shoot. I would suggest doing it on a lazy saturday afternoon, or sometime when you feel fully relaxed. Just remember your photos will directly reflect the way you feel. If you’re stressed, strained, tired, and frustrated, you better believe your photos will come out looking that way too. Unless you’re some sort of photogenic superhuman, but let’s face it, 99.9% of people are not.

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Minimal is key when it comes to wardrobe. Wait…no I’m not telling you to strip down, I’m telling you to keep it simple. Stay away from loud prints, excess jewelry, and twenty different accessory options. You don’t want what you wear to be a distraction from the overall photo, unless you’re running a fashion blog, then maybe you do. I would also say go easy on the makeup, but coming from a theatric background (yes, I have one of my degrees in musical theatre) I’d have to say it depends on what result you want from your photographs. Do you want a more dramatic, sultry, sexy feel? Then yes…bring out the lipstick and eyeliner. Do you want to have a natural, clean, fresh feel? Put that lipstick and eyeliner away and bring out the lipgloss and mascara.

I have already mentioned this, but try to use natural lighting. Some photos just come out looking over-exposed, and strangely colored when florescent lights are in the picture. Open the windows, go outside, watch the time of day. I like to do my self shoots in the late morning. I have great soft light filtering in the only two windows I have in my ever-so-lovely apartment.

Take lots of test photos. To get your focus just right, it’s going to take a while. Set up your tripod facing a non-distracting, neutral color wall or scene, and set it far enough away that you have plenty of moving room. I set place markers on the floor to figure out areas I’ve already stood in that were blurry (when trying to find the correct focus), or the spots that had perfect focus. I’m sure it’s a hilarious sight to see…a girl adjusting her camera, taking a photo, checking the photo, adjusting some more, and then taking another photo. Yay. It takes me about 10 minutes to figure out where I need to stand to get sharp, well-focused photos. I then start snapping away using my external remote. I’ll change my location and focus at least 4-5 times.

Don’t be afraid of the camera. Some of the best shots I’ve taken have been mere inches/feet away from the lens. Just remember, you are beautiful,  so don’t hid your face! Don’t hide your eyes. I shoot my portraits in a 50mm f1.4, and sometimes it’s not very forgiving. Don’t get discouraged…keep clicking away! It can take 5-15 shots before you take one you really like! That reminds me…don’t delete your pictures on the camera until AFTER you’ve checked them out on a big screen. I’ve deleted too many great photos this way. Save yourself the regret!

Once your pictures are loaded, please. please. please. Don’t go overboard on the editing. I have made the mistake of doing this in the past, and I often cringe at old photographs. A little shadow bump here, a color adjustment there, and an small exposure adjustment will do wonders. You don’t need to photoshop extremely white teeth, a completely wrinkle free  complexion, or over-saturated eyes. It’s completely apparent when you do this, and it can ruin the photo 100%.

Last tip of the day: If you fail, try again. Any photographer will tell you, the key to taking good pictures is to get out there and keep taking them. Same with selfies! If your last shoot didn’t go the way you wanted, evaluate it and figure out why. Try again with what you learned from your last shoot. I promise you’ll have professional looking self portrait photos in no time.

Good luck!

And now for my newest shoot:

First of all, check out my bad focus fails vs good focus wins.

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Focus fail

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Focus win

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Focus fail

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Focus win

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Focus win

Focus win

And now you know I’m a real human that makes photography mistakes, here are the rest of the photos.

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Welcome to Living in Another Language! Thanks for dropping by. We’re Derik and Amanda, a couple with a permanent case of wanderlust. Follow along with us as we travel the world. Read more about us HERE.

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    • ►February
      • Bored on a thursday night?
      • Osaka aquarium kaiyukan (part one)
      • The time i went to north korea (DMZ)
      • Weekly photo challenge: forward
      • A trip to the bamboo forest
      • Year one
      • Be mine
      • French press lattes
      • Weird Wednesday (02/13)
      • The bet we made with the boys
      • [Vietnam] last day in paradise
      • [Vietnam] $10 dollar scooters and free spray tans
      • Weekly Photo Challenge: Unique (Dr. Seuss)
    • ►January
      • Weird Wednesday (01/30)
      • I practice my hobbies on saturdays...
      • Weird Wednesday (01/23)
      • [Vietnam] the time i ate sea urchin
      • The candid series: farmer's market
      • [Vietnam] landing in paradise
      • Weird Wednesday (01/16)
      • 5D
      • [Vietnam] a morning in the bay
      • Weird Wednesday (01/09)
      • [Vietnam] in silent waters
      • [Vietnam] of busy streets and great food
      • Weird Wednesday (01/03)
  • ►2012
    • ►December
      • Dear santa...love, an expat.
      • Delicate
      • Bring forth the holiday cheer pt.2
      • Recipes: grandma knows best
      • I've become domesticated.
    • ►November
      • Weekend reunions
      • Bring forth the holiday cheer
      • They deserve it the most...
      • Three quarters.
      • 11/11
      • Halloween: 'korean style'
    • ►October
      • I wish I were...
      • Foreign
      • Sorry if i'm rude, i'm american.
      • Expat resources
      • As the days get colder
      • Big
      • Colors of change
      • Chuseok
      • 24
      • Top ten
      • Jasmine: not the tea or the disney princess.
      • Where do i get it? 10/4
    • ►September
      • six months plus.
      • [Bali] late night cruisin'
      • [Bali] water adventure day
    • ►August
      • Grand mirage...a piece of paradise. [bali]
      • The first of many [bali].
    • ►July
      • The dirtiest people i've ever seen
    • ►June
      • Its not always about the pictures.
      • Yeosu world expo. Basically the coolest event i've ever been to.
    • ►May
      • Seoul. It's beautiful chaos.
    • ►April
      • When did time escape me?
    • ►March
      • That BBQ Chicken...
      • Sick Days...
      • Busan
    • ►February
      • Of food and other things.
      • The Journey Over
      • The Grand Adventure
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2020 has been a year has it not? As much as I love 2020 has been a year has it not? As much as I love social media, I found myself taking a break as the things we were all going through made social media so insignificant to me. 

In January/February I had a miscarriage. It was a horrible way to start the year, and little did I know it was just the beginning of it all. 

Even with the loss, hardship of moving back to the US in the middle of a global pandemic, and navigating our new lives here, we were given many blessings. The greatest of those was finding out I was pregnant again in March.

It’s a scary time to be pregnant right now, especially after a miscarriage, because doctors visits are very minimal. Also, Derik was never able to come to a single visit. I was terrified something would happen and I would be told bad news and have to face that alone. But God was gracious to us. 

We kept our special little secret to ourselves, and it wasn’t until our third trimester before we told immediate family and close friends. My pregnancy was very private for me, and a special time to bond closely with the babe growing inside me.

Our sweet little girl arrived November 30, and yes I had to deliver with a mask on, but she is perfect and I truly feel our family is complete. 💕🌈
 
“When a rainbow appears, it doesn’t mean the storm never happened or that we are not still dealing with its aftermath. It means something beautiful and full of light has appeared in the midst of the darkness and clouds. Storm clouds may still hover but the rainbow provides a counterbalance of color, energy, and hope.”
I am in love. As I’m sure every other plant/mons I am in love. As I’m sure every other plant/monstera collector is when you get to behold such a beauty in real life. If there were ever #plantgoals, this is it. 

Since moving from Germany, it has been a long and slow process getting our life back to normal. All of our belongings have yet to arrive so we’ve literally been camping in our house on an air bed and camping chairs for two months. 😂 All that to say, having to start my plant collection over again here stateside has been so much fun! I will miss the plant prices if Germany, but the selection here blows my mind. Anyone else obsessed? We’ve lived here for almost 8 weeks now and I already have 11 plants 😂😬😬😬. I don’t have a bed or a couch, but by golly I have greenery. 😂🤦🏼‍♀️🌱
Oh my heart. I’ve been trying to figure out the Oh my heart.

I’ve been trying to figure out the words to say about our time in Germany, but my fingers can’t seem to type out how to express my love, gratefulness, thankfulness, sadness, and heartbreak I feel about leaving. Every country we’ve lived in has taught us something and has given us so many beautiful memories, as well as opened our eyes a little more to different cultures and ways of living.

But Germany was special. The first time we stepped foot into Germany was in 2015, and we loved it so much we stayed the extent of our travel visa (3 months). I was able to visit again in 2016, and then we officially packed everything and moved in 2017. Germany has always had my heart: the people, the festivals, the food, wine and beer, the immaculate home landscaping, and even all the rules that every resident is just expected to follow to a tee (like recycling every tiny scrap of trash). Our family grew from two to three while in Germany. Bringing our daughter into the world, and raising her for a year and a half in a different culture, will be one of the most beautiful memories of my life.

Our move was impacted by the COVID pandemic, and it took three long months of delays, red tape, and countless phone calls to get everything together so we could actually get on a plane and have our stuff packed and shipped to our new home. 
I am breathing a sigh of relief to know all the stress of everything is over and our new adventure can begin. I am mourning the loss of leaving Germany. I am in a weird transition right now trying to grasp it all, but here we are jumping into new things head first! We are back in the US for a while, in the beautiful state of Tennessee, and look forward to many new memories, travels, friends, and being able to spend time with family! 
Photos from my sweet and talented friend @juliejayphotos
I feel like I failed hard this year at Christmas m I feel like I failed hard this year at Christmas markets. We went to a total of ONE market, which is exactly 19 less than I told myself I would go to this year to make up for not going to any the year before 🤦🏼‍♀️(I was 40 weeks pregnant and not feeling crowds). I will say, it was a great one and the weather was so nice, we stayed out until the market shut down.

If there’s one thing I will miss most about Germany when it is our time to move, will be the sheer enthusiasm this country has for Christmas, and I’m not talking about consumerism. Food, laughter, friends, family, music, dancing: celebration. Also, Germany shuts down for not only one day, but THREE. Stores are closed, mail is not delivered, people aren’t out and about. Everyone is home enjoying time with family, and I love it. However, I may have gone into full blown panic mode Christmas Eve when I realized I had a total of 8 diapers to get us through until the 27th. 👀
We spent Thanksgiving back in North America: Whist We spent Thanksgiving back in North America: Whistler, Canada! A 10 hour flight from Germany , and I can’t say this one was better than the one we took over the summer on our trip to Alaska, but we survived! Entertaining a 11 month old for that long is much harder than a 6 month old, especially when they aren’t into sleeping on the plane AT ALL. 🤪

Whistler was beautiful despite the lack of snow, and we enjoyed our time with family, the delicious food, and as much sightseeing as one could do with a jet-lagged baby. 
This was actually my first trip to Canada ever, (unless you want to count the move my parents took up to Alaska from Arkansas when I was two. 😂🤷‍♀️ ) and I loved it! We would really like to take a big Canadian road trip someday and explore more of the country! 😍😍🇨🇦
Being a mama may mean I don’t always have time t Being a mama may mean I don’t always have time to put myself together, but I would rather spend the extra moments making special memories with our daughter that she can cherish forever. I doubt that she will look at this picture and see a tired, messy haired mama that’s barely had time to wash her face nevermind carefully apply makeup, but am hoping she will see a mama that never tires of carrying and cuddling her, or sharing new experiences with her. 💕
Oh Switzerland, you beaut.🇨🇭 We spent a coup Oh Switzerland, you beaut.🇨🇭 We spent a couple days enjoying the beautiful weather in the land of chocolate, cheese, mountains, and cows with bells 😍😍🤩. If you remember, we visited the same area  a month shy of two years ago but but the weather was quite the opposite! I’d have to say though, when you visit such a majestic and beautiful area, it doesn’t matter what the weather is, you’re going to be in awe and love it anyway!
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