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When Hotels Bite

Written by: Amanda // Category: Travel, travel tips

Derik and I have stayed at a lot of hotels over the past two years. Add the ones from the years before that and I’ll be counting for half the day. We’ve had quite a bit of success booking killer deals and fancy places; like the time we booked the Ramada for $40 bucks in Seoul ($230 dollar value) and ended up getting upgraded into a freaking suite with a full kitchen, two bedrooms, two baths, and a living room. However this is not always the case. Sometimes hotels up and bite you, and they bite hard. The worst part? You’re usually on vacation in an unfamiliar place, and don’t have time to deal with a horrid place to stay.

You see that picture above? That is not the bed from the Boracay Beach House in we stayed in for approximately 4 hours in Boracay, Philippines (just to be clear). Little did we know that our hastily found Boracay Beach House hotel room was going to: a. be infested by fist sized cockroaches, and b. have a mattress covered in blood stains. Let’s not even mention the fact that the bathroom had an uncovered window (no blinds or curtains) conveniently at eye level. But wait, you’re probably wanting me to back up a bit. Blood stains? Yep. And not the kind you want to think about either. I have a pretty good idea how they got there, but to say so on this blog would probably make a person or two lose their lunch. 

Unfortunately we found the problems a little too late in the night (aka 1:00am in the morning), and we ended up laying on our beach towels as we waited the sleepless night away. First thing in the morning we packed up our bags quicker than we would have if the hotel had been on fire. We battled two of those gigantic cockroaches who had laid claim to our shoes and bathroom supplies, snapped a couple pictures of their huge dead bodies, and headed out for the reception area, where we were met with a sour face and rolling eyes. Apparently this stuff happens a lot at this hotel -go figure. We tried not to be insensitive; I know the workers probably live in worse living conditions. All we wanted was our money back for the next 4 nights of stay and we would be on our way. We had booked through Agoda.com, and unfortunately they have a very strict refund policy.

However, if you’re faced in a situation like we were, here’s some steps you can take to get your full refund back.

1. Document your complaint/poor living conditions with pictures. We all have smart phones, point and shoots, DSLRs, and camera bearing iPods. If you have to submit a claim to a big company like Agoda or Hotels.com, make sure you have proof of what’s wrong. Usually a company with a strict ‘no refund’ policy isn’t going to give you money back based solely on what you say- they want proof. Also, when you go up to the reception (especially in a foreign country), showing them the pictures will help with any language barrier miscommunication you may be having. They’ll know right away what’s wrong when they see a picture of a blood-stained mattress in the room you rented out.

2. Know exactly what you want the hotel/booking agency to do. Discuss with your travel partners (if you have any) what you’re wanting the hotel or booking agency to do for you. Knowing exactly what you want will help with your negotiation process. Trust me, they’re not going to want to give you all that money back right off the bat. Stay firm, stay confident, and don’t settle.

3. Ask to speak to the hotel manager. Odds are the poor front desk clerk doesn’t have any say in the matter and can’t approve anything until they speak to their boss. Avoid having to repeat your story a million times by asking for the MOD right away. This will show you’re serious about getting something done fast. Once the manager is called, they’ll also know that one of their customers ‘mean business’ and hopefully they will start thinking of a good business strategy themselves to help make you happy.

4. Call and email the booking agency multiple times. When you book online through a big company, you often pay that company for the hotel. The funds are usually not released to the hotel businesses until after your stay. Sometimes they don’t get paid for weeks after your stay! Don’t expect the hotel to refund you money on the spot, because they might not even have it yet. Call the booking agency and ask for a refund. Most likely you’ll be transferred multiple times and they’ll have to hang up on you to call the hotel and negotiate. Always make sure you write down the name of the person you talked to, and make sure each of these customer service agents have your name, number, email and any other way they can contact you back.

5. Use the social media pull. Our hotel in Boracay was really stubborn: the manager was lazy and wouldn’t even leave her office to come talk to us, the front desk clerk hardly spoke English, our internet connection was really bad to Skype Agoda, and we were staying in a hotel that wasn’t very busy. Odds were that our refund wasn’t happening. But then my husband got smart and showed the front desk clerk my social media pull. He told them I was a travel blogger and have over 10,000 followers (conveniently taking them to my stats page), and if we wanted to virtually shut down their business we could (isn’t it crazy how much pull the internet gives a customer?). Within minutes our issue was resolved and the money was on it’s way back to my account. You see, people don’t naturally realize how much power the internet gives us! Think about Trip Advisor; one really bad review turns you completely off from a place right? Craziness.

6. Be as nice as you can. That being said, try to be as nice as you can. I know we had to issue a threat to get what we felt like we deserved, but before that we talked to them in calm, quiet voices, understanding smiles, and patience. Raising your voice and stomping around does you no good, and will usually leave the person your hate is directed to flustered, angry, annoyed, and frustrated. Give them some time and patience to figure things out!

7. If you’ve gained anything out of the horrible ordeal, you’ve gained experience. We now know to take into every single customer review from the last 4 months on both Agoda and Trip Advisor into consideration when looking for hotels to book. Sure a cheap hotel feels better on the pocketbook, but is it worth the vacation getting ruined? We’ve learned the six steps above, not by reading it in some book, but by actually having to experience it ourselves; and here I am imparting our knowledge to hopefully help you in the future!

Last but not least remember cheaper isn’t always the best. Sure your pocketbook may have less of a hole in it, but is that better than having your vacation ruined by a crappy hotel room?

What would you do? 

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Welcome to Living in Another Language! Thanks for dropping by. We’re Derik and Amanda, a couple with a permanent case of wanderlust. Follow along with us as we travel the world. Read more about us HERE.

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      • Foreign
      • Sorry if i'm rude, i'm american.
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      • Big
      • Colors of change
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      • 24
      • Top ten
      • Jasmine: not the tea or the disney princess.
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      • [Bali] water adventure day
    • ►August
      • Grand mirage...a piece of paradise. [bali]
      • The first of many [bali].
    • ►July
      • The dirtiest people i've ever seen
    • ►June
      • Its not always about the pictures.
      • Yeosu world expo. Basically the coolest event i've ever been to.
    • ►May
      • Seoul. It's beautiful chaos.
    • ►April
      • When did time escape me?
    • ►March
      • That BBQ Chicken...
      • Sick Days...
      • Busan
    • ►February
      • Of food and other things.
      • The Journey Over
      • The Grand Adventure
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Our adventures may be few and far between nowadays Our adventures may be few and far between nowadays, but the ones we get to take are oh so sweet. 

My daughters are now 2.5 years and 6 months old. Life never slows down, but only gets faster with each day we’re blessed to live. Social media may not be a part of my life how it used to be, and instead I’m working on living life intentionally each day as we raise our girls during these crazy times. 💕
2020 has been a year has it not? As much as I love 2020 has been a year has it not? As much as I love social media, I found myself taking a break as the things we were all going through made social media so insignificant to me. 

In January/February I had a miscarriage. It was a horrible way to start the year, and little did I know it was just the beginning of it all. 

Even with the loss, hardship of moving back to the US in the middle of a global pandemic, and navigating our new lives here, we were given many blessings. The greatest of those was finding out I was pregnant again in March.

It’s a scary time to be pregnant right now, especially after a miscarriage, because doctors visits are very minimal. Also, Derik was never able to come to a single visit. I was terrified something would happen and I would be told bad news and have to face that alone. But God was gracious to us. 

We kept our special little secret to ourselves, and it wasn’t until our third trimester before we told immediate family and close friends. My pregnancy was very private for me, and a special time to bond closely with the babe growing inside me.

Our sweet little girl arrived November 30, and yes I had to deliver with a mask on, but she is perfect and I truly feel our family is complete. 💕🌈
 
“When a rainbow appears, it doesn’t mean the storm never happened or that we are not still dealing with its aftermath. It means something beautiful and full of light has appeared in the midst of the darkness and clouds. Storm clouds may still hover but the rainbow provides a counterbalance of color, energy, and hope.”
I am in love. As I’m sure every other plant/mons I am in love. As I’m sure every other plant/monstera collector is when you get to behold such a beauty in real life. If there were ever #plantgoals, this is it. 

Since moving from Germany, it has been a long and slow process getting our life back to normal. All of our belongings have yet to arrive so we’ve literally been camping in our house on an air bed and camping chairs for two months. 😂 All that to say, having to start my plant collection over again here stateside has been so much fun! I will miss the plant prices if Germany, but the selection here blows my mind. Anyone else obsessed? We’ve lived here for almost 8 weeks now and I already have 11 plants 😂😬😬😬. I don’t have a bed or a couch, but by golly I have greenery. 😂🤦🏼‍♀️🌱
Oh my heart. I’ve been trying to figure out the Oh my heart.

I’ve been trying to figure out the words to say about our time in Germany, but my fingers can’t seem to type out how to express my love, gratefulness, thankfulness, sadness, and heartbreak I feel about leaving. Every country we’ve lived in has taught us something and has given us so many beautiful memories, as well as opened our eyes a little more to different cultures and ways of living.

But Germany was special. The first time we stepped foot into Germany was in 2015, and we loved it so much we stayed the extent of our travel visa (3 months). I was able to visit again in 2016, and then we officially packed everything and moved in 2017. Germany has always had my heart: the people, the festivals, the food, wine and beer, the immaculate home landscaping, and even all the rules that every resident is just expected to follow to a tee (like recycling every tiny scrap of trash). Our family grew from two to three while in Germany. Bringing our daughter into the world, and raising her for a year and a half in a different culture, will be one of the most beautiful memories of my life.

Our move was impacted by the COVID pandemic, and it took three long months of delays, red tape, and countless phone calls to get everything together so we could actually get on a plane and have our stuff packed and shipped to our new home. 
I am breathing a sigh of relief to know all the stress of everything is over and our new adventure can begin. I am mourning the loss of leaving Germany. I am in a weird transition right now trying to grasp it all, but here we are jumping into new things head first! We are back in the US for a while, in the beautiful state of Tennessee, and look forward to many new memories, travels, friends, and being able to spend time with family! 
Photos from my sweet and talented friend @juliejayphotos
I feel like I failed hard this year at Christmas m I feel like I failed hard this year at Christmas markets. We went to a total of ONE market, which is exactly 19 less than I told myself I would go to this year to make up for not going to any the year before 🤦🏼‍♀️(I was 40 weeks pregnant and not feeling crowds). I will say, it was a great one and the weather was so nice, we stayed out until the market shut down.

If there’s one thing I will miss most about Germany when it is our time to move, will be the sheer enthusiasm this country has for Christmas, and I’m not talking about consumerism. Food, laughter, friends, family, music, dancing: celebration. Also, Germany shuts down for not only one day, but THREE. Stores are closed, mail is not delivered, people aren’t out and about. Everyone is home enjoying time with family, and I love it. However, I may have gone into full blown panic mode Christmas Eve when I realized I had a total of 8 diapers to get us through until the 27th. 👀
We spent Thanksgiving back in North America: Whist We spent Thanksgiving back in North America: Whistler, Canada! A 10 hour flight from Germany , and I can’t say this one was better than the one we took over the summer on our trip to Alaska, but we survived! Entertaining a 11 month old for that long is much harder than a 6 month old, especially when they aren’t into sleeping on the plane AT ALL. 🤪

Whistler was beautiful despite the lack of snow, and we enjoyed our time with family, the delicious food, and as much sightseeing as one could do with a jet-lagged baby. 
This was actually my first trip to Canada ever, (unless you want to count the move my parents took up to Alaska from Arkansas when I was two. 😂🤷‍♀️ ) and I loved it! We would really like to take a big Canadian road trip someday and explore more of the country! 😍😍🇨🇦
Being a mama may mean I don’t always have time t Being a mama may mean I don’t always have time to put myself together, but I would rather spend the extra moments making special memories with our daughter that she can cherish forever. I doubt that she will look at this picture and see a tired, messy haired mama that’s barely had time to wash her face nevermind carefully apply makeup, but am hoping she will see a mama that never tires of carrying and cuddling her, or sharing new experiences with her. 💕
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